Lately it seems that between graduations, season changes, pregnancies, new jobs, moves and events that life just throws at us sometimes, I’ve heard lots of talk from friends and family of feeling uncertain – like treading water to keep your head afloat, like you’re in a situation with no direction and don’t know where to begin.
On one hand it can be completely scary having no direction or expectations. Either we don’t know how to give people what we think they’re looking for, or we know what comes next in a normal sequence of events, but don’t have a clear goal to reach. Both are entirely frustrating, especially if you’re like me and like everything to be as efficient as possible.
On the other hand, it can be incredibly freeing not to have a next step (depending on your situation, of course). You’ve finished a chapter and you’re free to make you own goals and rules to play by.Read More »